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    18
    Jan

    Lessons from Ulysses S. Grant

    I am reading two books right now and both of them have been talking about Ulysses S. Grant.  I expected it in one, after all it is a book about the Civil War (The State of Jones), but it was a surprise in the other (a book that I am reading for small group called If You Want to Walk On Water You’ve Got To Get Out of the Boat).

    Up until this point I have only known the basics about Grant: He was a general for the Union army in the Civil War and was the 18th President of the United States.  But there was a lot I didn’t know.  I think that it is so important for us to continually look back on history and learn from our forefathers.  Both the good and the bad.  Grant, unfortunately, offers us a lesson in being in the inappropriate leadership position.

    Grant seemed like a good fit for President.  He was a bulldog of a General in the Civil War.  He claimed many of the big victories of the war including the successful siege of Vicksburg.  He never gave up, even if it meant trying over and over again.  The slaves, freedmen, and Union supporters of the South knew that Grant was on their side.  After the end of the war, when the Unionists and freedmen of the South had so much hope of a new country, their dreams were shattered.  The Confederate leaders took things back over under the guise of supporting the new Union, but really bringing back the old habits of the antebellum South.  Even the new President, Andrew Johnson, was an extreme racist and considered the freed blacks as inferior along with the white yeoman farmers.  While Johnson continued with Abraham Lincoln’s emancipation agenda, life in the South was worse than it had ever been.

    And then the extreme republican and war hero, Grant, was on the ticket for the Presidential election.  Hope was here at last!  Until he entered the Presidency, with no political experience, and made all of the wrong decisions.  The yeoman farmers, freedman, and Unionists of the South pleaded for help as the Klan and old Confederate leaders ripped the place to shreds.  People were afraid to vote, they were starving to death, and the Klan terrorized the community.  But Grant did nothing for fear of losing political stance.  In fact, at one point he told the Unionist governor of the state of Mississippi (Ames) that if he sent troops into Mississippi to help, that he would lose the Republican vote of Ohio.  So he did nothing.  Remember Vicksburg?  That city he so courageously and strongly overtook?  Well, it landed right back in the hands of the people he worked so hard to defeat thanks to his lack of action, integrity, and ability as a political leader.  But at least he was President.  At least his picture was in the paper and he had his place of leadership.

    Grant knew he was not the right man for the job.  He didn’t understand the work and wasn’t the right leader. He was a great leader in the war, but not in politics.  In fact, in his final State of the Union address he said:

    It was my fortune, or misfortune, to be called to the office of Chief Executive without any previous political training.

    William McFeely, who wrote an autobiography on Grant, says of him:

    His personal need was to retain the immense respect in which he was held everywhere in the North. He wanted to matter in a world he had been watching closely all his life.  A little recognition- a little understanding that he did know what he was doing- was all he required.  He needed to be taken into account.”

    That is such a dangerous place to be.  To be in a place of leadership, even though it’s the wrong place for you, is not a good thing.  That’s why it’s so important to take a serious look at the position you are in and why you are there.  A real honest look.  And remember Grant.  He was a great military leader, but not political leader.  Just because you lead well in one area doesn’t mean you can take on any area of leadership.  Arthur Miller says:

    It is wrong, it is sin, to accept or remain in a position that you know is a mismatch for you.  Perhaps that’s a form of sin you’ve never even considered- the sin of staying in the wrong job.  But God did not place you on this earth to waste away your years in labor that does not employ his design or purpose for your life, no matter how much you may be getting paid for it.

    I love that this concept came up, using the same person in history, in the two books that I happen to be reading at the same time.  I love when God does stuff like that.  If you do think you are in a position like this and need to self-evaluate, please take the time to do that.  It is going to take a lot of humility and a whole lot of self-awareness, but it will be worth it.

    In closing, I will leave you with some great questions that John Ortberg recommends asking yourself.

    1. What is your most painful limitation?
    2. What is the limitation that frightens you most to acknowledge and accept?
    3. Where do you most avoid seeing the deep truth about yourself?

    10
    Jan

    Book Review: Walking With God

    This has been a life-changing book for me, but then again, John Eldredge usually does that to me.   It was one of those books that I had to force myself to put down each night and get some sleep.  I went in waves throughout the book thinking that some of the concepts were a little too “out there” for me.  After all, thinking about God actually talking to us and aspects of spiritual warfare can get a little spooky sometimes.  But as I continued to read, ask God about this stuff, and look in the Bible for specific examples, the more I am convinced of the power of these principles.  I think about this stuff constantly now and am looking for more and more ways to apply it to my life.  This is a book I won’t soon forget.

    04
    Jan

    Book Review: A Million Miles in a Thousand Years

    A friend of mine gave me this book because Donald Miller talks a lot about his trek on the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu and it made her think of me.  I’m so glad it did because I loved this book!  I read it when I was sick last week and I knocked it out in two days.  He writes with the same style that he did in Blue Like Jazz.  It’s a great collection of stories that stick with his message of making sure you are living a story worth living.  I loved it and highly recommend it!

    29
    Dec

    2010 Reading List

    You may remember that last year I posted my 2009 Reading List. Well, it didn’t go well.  I started with a list of 14 and read exactly four of the books on the list (1776, Northanger Abbey, Shattered Dreams, and A Thousand Splendid Suns).  I did read several other books, but they weren’t on the list so they don’t count.

    My theme for this year’s reading list is “2010 try, try again.”  So, below you will find the latest reading list which includes some of the books from last year and some new ones to replace the ones I am no longer interested in reading (at least for now).  I would like to give a special thanks to my boss, Jeff Henderson, from whose list I stole several of these ideas.  The big difference is that he has 46 books on his list and will actually read all of them, and I have 18 on mine and will struggle to finish.  Hopefully my new Kindle will help me out!

    Kelly’s 2010 Reading List:

    1. The State of Jones- Jenkins & Stauffer
    2. Counterfeit Gods- Timothy Keller
    3. South of Broad- Pat Conroy
    4. Plan B: What Do You Do When God Doesn’t Show Up the Way You Thought He Would?- Pete Wilson
    5. The Noticer- Andy Andrews
    6. Open: An Autobiography- Andre Agassi
    7. Walking With God- John Eldredge
    8. The Writings of Thomas Jefferson- Thomas Jefferson
    9. Cold Tangerines- Shana Niequist
    10. Boundaries- Cloud & Townsend
    11. When The Heart Waits- Sue Monk Kidd
    12. For Women Only- Shaunti Feldmann
    13. Good to Great- Jim Collins
    14. If You Want To Walk On Water You’ve Got to Get Out of the Boat- John Ortberg
    15. Orthodoxy- G.K. Chesterton
    16. Life of the Beloved- Henri Nouwen
    17. The Best Question Ever- Andy Stanley
    18. Made to Stick- Chip and Dan Heath

    16
    Dec

    I’m Yours

    There are some things in life that you just have to see…and this is one of them.

    26
    Nov

    Happy Thanksgiving!

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    24
    Nov

    Just Another Day at the Office!

    22
    Nov

    Beauty Will Rise

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    I have been a long time fan of Steven Curtis Chapman.  In fact, I remember being about 8 or 9 years old when my dad first popped The Great Adventure cassette into the car tape player and telling us that we would probably like this guy because he was a lot like Michael W. Smith (whose Go West Young Man album was out at the time).  The rest is history.  I have been a fan ever since.

    While I have always liked his music (specifically his lyrics) I have been particularly touched by his new album, Beauty Will Rise. This is an album full of songs written after the tragic death of his 5-year-old daughter, Maria.  I bought the album the day it came out and listened to the entire thing, in order, during my drive to work.  Tears were running down my face the whole time.  It is a powerful example of someone asking God the hard questions and recognizing God’s redemption through it all.

    If you have ever asked “Where were you, God?”…

    If you have ever asked “How could you, God?”…

    If you have ever not wanted to wake up in the morning…

    If you have ever wondered how you are going to take your next breath…

    If you have ever felt loss so deep that you weren’t sure the pain would ever go away…

    Or if you have ever wondered about God’s faithfulness….

    I HIGHLY recommend this album to you.

    22
    Nov

    Christmas Lights Reminder- Revised

    Well it’s that time of year again when all of the Christmas lights begin to go up on houses.  For the past couple of years I have posted this Christmas lights reminder that focuses on the “don’ts” of Christmas lights.  This year I decided to take a different route.

    As I was driving through my parents subdivision last night I saw this excellent display of Christmas lights.  So, this year, I will use this as an example of all that is right about Christmas light usage!

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    1. Icicle Lights- Note that the lights are clear (just like real icicles) and that they are covering the appropriate peaks of the house.  They are not hanging at strange angles where real icicles wouldn’t be.

    2. Light nets- Notice how their light nets cover the entire bush.  I am going to assume that they took into account the fact that every year their bushes grow and that each year they will need bigger or more light nets.  Either that or they trimmed their bushes back.  They did not cover only part of their bushes and they did not try to make a “creative shape” with the light nets, like that of a Christmas tree.  Those are bushes, no one thinks the Christmas tree shaped light net is a real Christmas tree.

    3. Strand lights- You will see that these are wrapped evenly around the garland and the wreaths.  I am assuming that these were pre-lit items, which is always a classy and safe choice.  You will also notice a lack of stringing random strands of lights through trees.  That’s probably because they know that’s tacky and didn’t want to go to the effort of wrapping the branches, which would be the appropriate method.

    OK, now that I have that out of my system. . . Happy Decorating!

    15
    Nov

    My Photos In Public!

    A few months ago my dad asked me to take a few shots of some things that are uniquely Atlanta or landmarks in Atlanta.  My friend, Lindsay, and I had a great time walking around Atlanta and taking all kinds of photos.  Lindsay was a great assistant and even took a couple of shots herself.

    I have a kind of agreement with my family that I will take any pictures, but it’s ok if they don’t like them.  If they like them, then we all win, if they don’t like them, well, it was worth a try and I got some experience.  I am not a professional, I just like to take pictures!  But, it turns out that the people at Kroger liked some of my shots and they picked 20 of mine and 1 of Lindsay’s to hang up at one of their newly redesigned stores!  So if you are around the Moreland Kroger in Atlanta, go check them out!

    Here are some of my favorite shots and a couple of shots of us at Kroger!

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    Ebeneezer Baptist Church (where MLK preached)

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    The Fox Theater

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    Big chess set in Woodruff Park

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    Historic Oakland Cemetery (where Margaret Mitchel, Bobby Jones, and other famous people that I can’t remember are buried)

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    Findley Plaza (in Little Five Points)

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    Junkman’s Daughter (Little Five Points)

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    The Vortex (Little Five Points)

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